Monday, July 03, 2006
ppl tell me that I have to be better to myself n yet I am not good to others too.
by reading my student's blog, i realise that I hurt them in certain ways, first I hurt them by jumping to conclusions and assuming things.
Thus I muz not assume things in the future, the key her is to give ppl chances to explain. Maybe I do not do that, maybe my temper is too big. This is a good learning experience and I will not let my emotions get the better of me this time. I wil learn to ask first then scold
second, my way of phasing things can be donebetter, for e.g. instead of saying I will be popping by to check on u, i can say things like, I will be stopping by to help when I can.
instaed of offering detention all the time, i muz bear in mind that they are students and may be mature students. Thus I cannot always threaten with detention. These I muz learn
Trolly , pls speak slowly so that u have time to think. Thks
I must find the me, the one whom I know I wanna be ;
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